Accept everything about yourself--I mean everything. You are you and that is the beginning and the end--no apologies, no regrets. ~ Henry Kissinger

Thursday, June 3, 2010

Small things aren’t worth losing friends over. We can tolerate the flaws of other people but it gets harder as you start getting pissed off yourself or when it’s just not your day. And when you have an argument with them it’s so easy to think that they’re the ones in the wrong and all your actions were justified but you know most of the time in retrospect you realise that the stuff you did or said were as bad as or worse than theirs or sometimes you see that what they did weren’t as bad as you thought at the time. I think the best thing to do is just swallow your pride and just say sorry but you also have to make sure that you mean it or else its gnna be pointless, it might not seem like it at the time but itll probably come back in some way. Oh and another reason to apologise is because itll probably make both you and your friend feel better? I dnno but im assuming this applies for most people but when I get pissed over something like that it’s impossible to do work of any kind and that makes me mad even more because i just end up wasting a lot of time.
Hmm but yeah I know all of us already know this but its good have reminders.


  1. I've always pictured friendship as something you grow in together with your friend. Like a plant that you both tend to and not allow to die. Depending on the amount of attention and care you give it, it tends to blossom and grow, however it requires both friends. Like imagine one friend is water and the other is sunlight. The friendship won't grow with just sunlight or just water.
    I think i've probably gone of topic but your post is about friendship and so is my comment =P